Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Thoughts

Feel like poured out everything in one shot, but please don't be mistaken that I am emotional or down today. Just some thoughts to share with you here. If there's argument occur, it's always easy for you to say you will forgive the other person if he or she who is being mean to you. But, the issue is, do you really forgive the person, don't you? People tend to 'forgive' verbally but from the bottom of one's heart, might be still thinking of the past incident. And perhaps, the incident (if it is a serious one) like a leech haunted you and make you hardly forget the unhappy things. How could this unwanted feelings be released? Today, I found out some useful points to ponder, give me a lots of inspiration and motivation. Life is just too short to complain and worry.
Points to ponder:

• Don't let someone become priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life... ...
Relationships work best when they are balanced :)

• Never explain yourself to any one. Because the person who likes you doesn't need it, and the person who dislikes
you won't believe it.

• When you keep saying you are busy, then you are never free.
When you keep saying you have no time, then you will never have time.
When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, then your tomorrow will never come.

• When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices.
Go back to sleep and dream,
or wake up and chase those dreams. Choice is yours... ...

• Don't make promise when you are in joy.
Don't reply when you are sad.
Don't take decision when you are angry.

• Time is like a river.
You cannot touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again.
Enjoy every moment of life ... ...


All these sound so easy to be materialize. But, when comes to reality, it seems so hard to take initiative to act on it. Today, I just gave my best advice to a close friend, but hopefully she will realise but not until another 3rd party to tell her what's the issue. I personally quite like the first note, and agreed to have a balance life. Life is not only about love, but also involved many other things as well. Hope this could help you a bit more or less in your sorrow moments.

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